Tuesday, January 7, 2025

Bhutanese Culture

 Below are ten proverbs attributed to Bhutanese culture. Because Bhutan has multiple languages and regional dialects (with Dzongkha as the national language), the exact wording can vary. These English versions capture the essence of the wisdom they convey. While proverbs often circulate orally and can appear in slightly different forms, they reflect common values such as humility, respect, community, and gratitude.

  1. “The cow that moos too often gets no grass.”

    • Talking too much or complaining constantly can lead to being ignored.
  2. “Words have no wings but can still fly a thousand miles.”

    • Spoken words travel far and have great impact, so choose them with care.
  3. “One small candle can light a thousand others.”

    • A single act of kindness or wisdom can inspire many more.
  4. “Better a single path walked with purpose than a thousand aimless journeys.”

    • Focus and intention are more valuable than wandering without direction.
  5. “A tree stands tallest on the strength of its roots.”

    • One’s foundation (values, upbringing) is crucial for enduring success.
  6. “Anger is a poison you feed yourself.”

    • Holding on to anger harms you more than it harms others.
  7. “A borrowed knife does not cut well.”

    • Relying too much on others’ resources or efforts is often ineffective.
  8. “The whisper of a wise friend outweighs the shout of a fool.”

    • Good advice, even softly spoken, is more powerful than loud nonsense.
  9. “Laughter shared is happiness doubled.”

    • Joy grows when experienced with others.
  10. “One who sees life’s impermanence values each moment dearly.”

  • Recognizing that nothing lasts forever encourages gratitude and care in daily life.

These sayings embody principles of self-reliance, mindfulness, and compassion that are cherished in Bhutanese culture.

A famous fable

 Read the fable and tell us what is the moral you get out of reading it.


The Fox and the Crow


Master Crow perched on a branch, holding a piece of cheese in his beak.
Master Fox, drawn by the tempting smell, addressed him with these words:
“Good day, my dear Crow! How lovely you are! What a splendid sheen your feathers have! Surely, if your voice is as fine as your plumage, you are the Phoenix of these woods.”
Delighted by such praise, the Crow opened his beak to let out a proud caw. The cheese tumbled to the ground, and the Fox swiftly snatched it up.
“My good Crow,” the Fox said, “learn that every flatterer lives at the expense of those who believe him. This lesson is well worth a piece of cheese, indeed.”
Ashamed and now wiser, the Crow vowed never again to be tricked by flattery.

Have and Have got

 Unit 9  have and have got 

Mësimi 9  Folja kam 

 

  1. have and have got (= for possession, relationships, illnesses, appointments, etc.)  

folja kam (= për pronësi, marrëdhënie, sëmundje, takime, etj.) 

 

You can use have or have got. There is no difference in meaning. You can say:  

Ju mund të përdorni have ose have got. Nuk ka asnjë ndryshim në kuptim. Ju mund të thoni: 

  • They have a new car.  or  Theyve got a new car.  

  • Lisa has two brothers or  Lisa has got two brothers.  

  • I have a headache.  or  Ive got a headache.  

  • Our house has a small yard.  or  Our house has got a small yard.  

  • He has a few problems or  Hes got a few problems.  

  • I have a driving lesson tomorrow.  or  Ive got a driving lesson tomorrow.  

 

With these meanings (possession, etc.), we do not use continuous forms (Im having, etc.):  

Me këto kuptime (pronësi, etj.), nuk përdorim format e vazhduara: 

  • Were enjoying our vacation. We have / Weve got a nice room in the hotel. (not Were having a nice room 

 

For the past we use had (usually without got):  

Për të shkuarën përdorim kisha (zakonisht pa got): 

  • Hannah had long hair when she was a child. (not Hannah had got) 

 

 

  1. In questions and negative sentences there are two possible forms:  

Në pyetjet dhe fjalitë negative ndodhen dy forma të mundshme: 

 

or 

Do you have any questions?  

Have you got any questions?  

 

 

or 

I dont have any questions.  

I havent got any questions.  

 

 

or 

Does she have a car? 

Has she got a car? 

 

or 

She doesnt have a car.  

She hasnt got a car.  

 

In past questions and negative sentences, we use did/didnt 

Në pyetjet dhe fjalitë negative ku flasim për të shkuarën, përdorim did/didnt: 

  • Did you have a car when you were living in Miami?  

  • I didnt have my phone, so I couldnt call you.  

  • Liz had long hair, didnt she? 

 

 

  1. have breakfast / have trouble / have a good time, etc.  

 

We also use have (but not have got) for things we do or experience. For example:  

Gjithashtu përdorim foljen kam (pa got) për gjëra që bëjmë apo përjetojmë. Për shembull: 

 

 

 

have 

 

 

breakfast / dinner / a cup of coffee / something to eat, etc.  

a party / a vacation  

an accident / an experience / a dream  

a good trip / a good flight / a good time  

fun / trouble / difficulty  

a look (at something 

a chat / a discussion / a conversation / a talk (with somebody 

a baby (= give birth to a baby) / an operation 

 

Have got is not possible in these expressions. Compare: 

Have got nuk është e mundur në këto shprehje. Krahasoni:  

  • Sometimes I have (= eat) a sandwich for lunch. (not Ive got 

but  Ive got / I have some sandwiches. Would you like one?  

 

You can use continuous forms (Im having, etc.) with these expressions: 

Ju mund të përdorni format e vazhduara me këto shprehje: 

  • Were enjoying our vacation. Were having a great time.  

  • Mike is having trouble with his car. He often has trouble with his car.  

 

In questions and negative sentences, we use do/does/did 

Në pyetjet dhe fjalitë negative, përdorim do/does/did: 

  • I dont usually have a big breakfast. (not I usually havent 

  • Where does Chris usually have lunch?  

  • Did you have trouble finding somewhere to stay? (not Had you) 

……………………………………………………………………………………………………….…………Exercises  ~  Ushtrime 

  1. Which goes with which?  

Cilat nga këto fjali lidhen me njëra-tjetrën? 

  1. Im not free tomorrow morning.  

  1. Rachel is an only child.  

  1. Weve got plenty of time.  

  1. Youve got a really good voice.  

  1. I dont feel very well this morning.  

  1. Megan went to college.  

  1. Ive got a question. 

  1. James has got a lot of experience.  

 

  1. She has a degree in physics.  

  1. Ive got a sore throat.  

  1. Theres no need to hurry.  

  1. Ive got a driving lesson 

  1. Maybe you can answer it.  

  1. I think he should get the job.  

  1. I wish I could sing as well as you.  

  1. She hasnt got any brothers or sisters. 

1 ____ 

2 ____ 

3 ____ 

4 ____ 

5 ____ 

6 ____ 

7 ____ 

8 ____ 

 

 

  1. Complete the sentences using have. 

Plotësoni fjalitë duke përdorur foljen kam. 

  1. She couldnt get into the house. She didnt have a key.  

  1. Is there anything youd like to ask? Do you have any questions?  

  1. They cant pay their bills. They __________________ any money.  

  1. We got wet in the rain yesterday. We ____________________ an umbrella.  

  1. Jack _________________ a car. He cant afford one, and he cant drive anyway.  

  1. Excuse me, __________________ a pen I could borrow? Yes, sure. Here you go.  

  1. I was very busy yesterday. I ____________________ time to go shopping.  

  1. Tell me about Jack. __________________ a job? Yes, he works at the hospital.  

  1. When you worked at your last job, _________________ your own office?  

  1. Wheres the remote control? I dont know. I ____________________________ it.  

  1. Tom _______________ a motorcycle _______________ he? Yes, a long time ago. He doesnt have one now. it. 

 

  1. Are the underlined words OK? Change them where necessary.  

A janë në rregull fjalët e nënvizuara? Ndryshojini aty ku është e nevojshme. 

  1. Im not free tomorrow morning. Ive got a driving lesson 

  1. Rachel had got long hair when she was a child.  

  1. I couldnt contact you because I hadnt my phone 

  1. Are you feeling OK? No, Im having a cold.  

  1. This party is great. Im having a good time 

  1. I felt really tired. I hadnt any energy 

  1. Its a small town. It doesnt have many stores 

  1. Was your trip OK? Had you any problems 

  1. My friend called me when I was having lunch 

  1. The last time I saw Steve, he was having a beard 

  1. We dont need to hurry. We have plenty of time 

  1. Have you breakfast every day? 

OK 

Rachel had long hair  

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  1. Complete the sentences. Use an expression with have in the correct form. Choose from:  

Plotësoni fjalitë. Përdorni një shprehje me foljen kam në formën e duhur. Zgjidhni nga: 

have a baby 

have a look 

have a bad dream 

have lunch  

have a chat 

have a party 

have trouble 

have a nice time 

have a good trip 

have a vacation  

 

  1. I dont eat much during the day. I never have lunch 

  1. I didnt sleep well last night. I _________________ about my exam.  

  1. We ___________________ last week. We invited lots of people.  

  1. Excuse me. Can I _________________ at your magazine, please?  

  1. Joe is away on vacation right now. I hope he ______________________ 

  1. I met some friends in the supermarket yesterday. We stopped and ___________________  

  1. “ ____________________ finding the book you wanted? No, I found it OK.  

  1. Lauren ______________________ a few weeks ago. Its her second child.  

  1. Im leaving for Hawaii in a few hours. Thats great! ___________________________!”  

  1. Id like to go away somewhere. I ___________________________ for a long time.